I had a Shared Hosted environment and had them install this web part...but never got any of the requests to show up in the Review Membership Request list??? I have since purchased my own server, installed Windows 2008 R2 and SharePoint Foundations and got the FBA configured and working...
...BUT...I still do not get any of the Membership Requests to appear in the Manage Membership Requests list!!!
When using the FBA Pak's Membership Request web part...it adds the users to the database and assigns roles but does not activate or appear in the Review list. I must be doing something wrong.