Many thanks for the lovely solution to seamlessly manage FBA users. I got it all working except the emails. I have checked a few times and pretty sure I have configured it correctly. Infact my outgoing emails are also working with scheduled and immediate alerts. I have checked all the configuration and settings pages thoroughly but don't understand what I might be doing wrong:
The New users are not sent emails, and when using the web part to reset the password it errors:
"There was an error sending the email, please check with your administrator".
Any help will be greatly appreciated.