I have created a custom login page in VS2010 and would like to use the FBA Recover Password webpart in my solution. Being somewhat new to creating solutions for SharePoint 2010 I am unsure of the proper steps needed to implement your webpart on my custom page. Any insight would be helpful!
I would usually link from the login page to a seperate recover password page. For the recover password page, you can either create a page in SharePoint, add the web part, and give the list it resides in anonymous access. Or you can create an application page with the webpart on it. Some examples of that are here: http://sharepoint2010fba.codeplex.com/discussions/259533.